Frequently asked questions
What defines a "great toy" for 9-12 year olds?
It’s all about challenge, engagement, and growth. Kids in this age group crave depth. They want puzzles to solve, worlds to build, skills to master, and projects to complete. Less passive, more interactive, and often with a tangible outcome. Think beyond “play” and more towards “do” or “create.”
My child spends a lot of time on screens. How can I encourage unplugged play?
Offer genuinely compelling alternatives that are equally immersive and rewarding. Don’t just give them a “toy” – present a “quest” or a “challenge.” This could be a complex strategy board game, an intricate LEGO Technic or architectural set, an advanced science or robotics kit, or exciting outdoor gear that sparks real-world adventure. Frame it as a new kind of “level” to beat or a “mystery” to solve.
What kind of toys best support their developing minds and critical thinking?
STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) kits are fantastic! Look for robotics kits (like LEGO), coding games or intro sets , chemistry sets that yield visible reactions, or mechanical engineering sets. Also, don’t underestimate complex logic puzzles, brain teasers, and strategic board games (like chess). These sharpen critical thinking, problem-solving, and patience.
Do they still need toys for creative expression, and what do those look like now?
Absolutely, but elevate it! While crayons might be out, high-quality art supplies (a proper sketching set, watercolor or acrylic paints, modeling clay), intricate craft kits (advanced jewelry making, model building, stop-motion animation kits), or even beginner musical instruments are perfect. They want to create something tangible that shows off their developing skills and unique style.
What about toys that encourage physical activity and outdoor fun?
Outdoor gear is key for this age! Think beyond basic bikes. Skateboards, scooters, rollerblades, sports equipment (good quality basketballs, soccer balls, tennis rackets), Slacklines, frisbee golf sets, or even a drone for aerial exploration can be incredibly engaging. Anything that gets them moving, exploring, and developing coordination is a win.
What if they say they're "too old for toys"?
Reframe it! These aren’t “toys” in the toddler sense. They’re “tools,” “projects,” “challenges,” “equipment,” or “hobby starters.” Think advanced hobby kits (model airplanes, intricate crafts), quality art supplies, sports gear, tech gadgets (like a small drone or a basic coding device), or sophisticated brain teasers. It’s about developing mastery, competence, and diving deep into a new interest, not just simple play.
Any good ideas for gifts that encourage social interaction and family time?
Strategy board games are a goldmine! Games like Uno,” “Monopoly Deal, cooperative games or party games can be fantastic for social interaction and family game nights. Also team sports equipment, or even an escape room kit can foster collaboration and friendly competition.